a war

What's a soulmate?

Well, it's like a best friend, but more. It's the one person in the world that knows you better than anyone else. It's someone who makes you a better person, well, actually they don't make you a better person - you do that yourself because they inspire you. A soulmate is someone who you carry with you forever. It's the one person who knew you, and accepted you, and believed in you before anyone else did or when no one else would. And no matter what happens... you will always love them.

Finding a soul mate phase, mental war

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I believe one of the toughest situations you can be ever faced with is deciding whether you should just move on or hold on a little tighter. Move on, and maybe you'll lose a chance at the best thing that could have ever happened, or hold on and have the possibility of your heart being broken.

Too many times we put our hearts on the line, hoping that this time, things are going to be different. And too many times, we play the waiting game because we are too afraid of making decisions

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You can try your hardest - you can do everything within your means but sometimes people just aren't worth it anymore. They aren't worth all the tears and worrying, and it's important to know when to let go of someone who only brings you down.

Because when you keep giving away pieces of your heart to people who would throw them aside, how much would you have left? At the end of the day, would you be left to pick up the pieces all by yourself?

I thought about how we feel lonely, sometimes to the point of tears, but we don’t let those tears come because we are not supposed to cry. Or how we feel a surge of love for a partner but we don’t say anything because we’re frozen with fear of what those words might do.

People always think that the most painful thing is losing the one you love. But the truth is, losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much and forgetting that you're special too, is equally painful.

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You’ve got to risk love. It doesn’t mean that you’re never going to get hurt but the pain you feel will never compare to the regret that comes from walking away from love.

It makes me sad when people tell me that they have given up on love. And it’s always because they think love has hurt them when in actuality, it was a person, a thing, a wrong decision, a bad mistake, or an accident. So don’t let go of love - hold on, because it’ll always be worth your while.

Anyone can easily walk away from somebody else. Nobody is forced to stay; we all have choices. But the real test is if someone would rather stay with you, even though walking away would be so much easier.

The important thing is for you to believe in something, because I promise you that that belief will keep you warm at night, and I want you to feel safe always. And then there’s love. I want you to love to the tips of your fingers, and when you find that love, wherever you find it, whoever you choose, don’t run away from it. But you don’t have to chase after it either. You just be patient, and it’ll come to you. Don’t be afraid. And remember, to love is to live.

------ then jump into conclusion! *in fact we couldn't conclude anything*

People say that walking away is the hardest thing to do, but it isn't. Staying, even when you know it will break your heart is the toughest. Staying right where you are, waiting for your heart to be ripped apart is much harder than walking away and starting anew.

Maybe it doesn't really matter if you wear your heart on your sleeve or if you guard it with all your might because in the end, everyone's gonna get hurt

I've come to realise, its the What If's that hurt the most.

----- in the end, we just want to meet him/her again..

There are times when I want nothing more than to look you in the eyes, because it's when we're looking at each other in silence that we end up saying the most.

all these quotes were taken from this beautiful blog, thanks to yasmin