I’ve read how people have achieved a lot, do better at their young age, consistently building their pathway to their life purpose, well connected to their right partners, and everything that I believe is better than mine now. This is not about their ‘success’ but about their dark years and how they managed to stand up and fly after that. Each of these people has a full luggage of life experiences, competencies, wisdom and values. Then I started to look at mine. I wonder how they manage everything, especially their family. How do they spend their quality time? These past few weeks I’ve been busy with work and volunteering project. I know I want to do both, I know I have to do those things now in my age before I have my little new family, which I still have no clue about that. I still want to have a language course, sports, etc. Activities aside from work sometimes consume my family time, I don’t mind as long as I still have a day each week to spend with my whole family, but th